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Life is about ... Hope, Joy, Hatred, Confusion, Vengeance, Passion, Obsession, Sorrow, Acceptance, Anxiety, Lust, Excitement, Annoyance, Frustation, Disappointment, Fear, Compassion, Devotion, Embarassment, Rejection, Exaltation, Desire, Loneliness, Love, Jealousy, Sincerity, Shock, Happiness, Guilt, Disgust, Gaiety, Envy, Emptiness, et cetera et cetera et cetera.
Am I really that short?
Some interesting and unusual facts :
多么想很开心有个梦
Back home finally ...
Extremely tired today, both mentally and physically. Been experiencing extreme headache lately... felt as if the head was going to explode anytime ... tiring life!
Having no worklife balance ... must do something about it ! Wonder which path am I on? A job or a career? Something that fulfills my financial needs or a cohesive linkage of doing things I like and fit with my lifestyle?
“What is the good in life if its chief element, and that which must always be its chief element, is odious? No, the only true economy is to arrange so that your daily labour shall be itself a joy.”
~Edward Carpenter~
Was suddenly asked by my sis if I know what is the position of our surname in the list of surnames in China ... And of course ... as expected, I DUNNO!
Birthday wish(es) of the year:
Why do my sis just has to argue with me all the time ...
Haih ... McD trip again ... seems like I'm easy to be bullied. Just got home an hour ago and now am asked to go out again to buy food for them ... Physically and mentally tired yet have to go out to buy for them ... What life is this ....
Paradox of Our Times
我们这个时代的尴尬
Today we have bigger houses and smaller families; more conveniences, but less time;
我们居住的房屋越来越宽敞,家庭却越来越小型化;可以享受的生活便利日益增多,属于自己的时间却日趋减少;
we have more degrees, but less common sense; more knowledge, but less judgment;
我们获得了一张又一张学位证书,却愈加频繁地陷入对常识的茫然中;我们广泛地涉猎各类知识,却越来越缺乏对于外界事物的准确把握和判断;
We have more experts, but more problems; more medicine, but less wellness.
我们的专家越来越多,问题却也日渐增加;药物越吃越多,健康却每况愈下。
We spend too recklessly, laugh too little, drive too fast, get to angry too quickly, stay up too late, get up too tired, read too little, watch TV too often, and pray too seldom.
我们花钱太疯,笑容太少,开车太快,怒气太盛,熬夜太晚,起身太累,文章读得太少,电视看得太勤,祷告做得太少。
We have multiplied our possessions, but reduced our values. We talk too much, love too little and lie too often.
我们不断聚敛物质财富,却逐渐丢失了自我价值。我们的话语太多,真爱太少,谎言泛滥。
We‘ve learned how to make a living, but not a life; we’ve added years to life, not life to years.
我们掌握了谋生手段,却不懂得生活真谛;我们让年华付诸流水,却不曾将生命倾注其中。
We have taller buildings, but shorter tempers; wider freeways, but narrower viewpoints.
我们的住房越来越好,脾气却越来越糟;我们行驶的道路越来越宽阔,眼光却越来越狭隘。
We spend more, but have less; we buy more, but enjoy it less.
我们付出很多,可获得的很少;我们购买了很多,可从中得到的乐趣却很少。
We've been all the way to the moon and back, but have trouble crossing the street to meet the new neighbour.
我们能够往返于地球与月球之间却不乐于穿过马路向新邻居问好。
We've conquered outer space, but not inner space. We've split the atom, but not our prejudice;
我们可以征服外部空间,却慑于走进内心世界。我们可以击碎原子,却不能突破思想偏见;
we write more, but learn less; plan more, but accomplish less.
我们写得很多,可学到的很少;计划很多,可完成的很少。
We've learned to rush, but not to wait; we have higher incomes, but lower morals.
我们学会了追赶时间,却没学会耐心等待;我们拥有的财富越来越多,道德品质却日益沦丧。
We build more computers to hold more information, to produce more copies, but have less communication. We are long on quantity, but short on quality.
我们生产更多的电脑用于存储更多的信息和制造更多的拷贝,而相互间的交流与沟通却越来越少。我们拥有的是数量,缺乏的是质量。
These are the times of fast foods and slow digestion; tall men and short character; steep profits and shallow relationships.
这是一个快餐食品和消化迟缓相伴的时代;一个体格高大和性格病态并存的时代;一个追名逐利和人情冷漠相生的时代。
More leisure and less fun; more kinds of food, but less nutrition; two incomes, but more divorce; fancier houses, but broken homes.
我们的闲暇多了,乐趣却少了;食品种类多了,营养却少了;双薪家庭增加了,离婚率也激升了;居室的装修华丽了,家庭却残缺破碎了。
That’s why I propose, that as of today, you do not keep anything for a special occasion, because every day that you live is a special occasion.
因此我奉劝大家,在当今这个时代,不必为某个特别时刻保留什么,因为我们生活的每一天都是特别的。
Search for knowledge, read more, sit on your front porch and admire the view without paying attention to your needs.
探索知识,遨游书海,坐在门廊前欣赏眼前的景色,把所有烦恼抛在脑后。
Spend more time with your family and friends, eat your favorite foods, and visit the places you love.
留出更多的时间与家人和朋友一起分享,吃遍天下美食,游遍你心中想往的名山大川。
Life is a chain of moment of enjoyment, not only about survival.
生命是由快乐时光组成的一个链条,而绝不仅仅是一种生命的存在。
Use your crystal goblets. Do not save your best perfume, and use it every time you feel you want it.
举起你那水晶酒杯开怀畅饮吧,不要吝惜你最好的香水,只要想用就尽情地用吧。
Remove from your vocabulary phrases like “one of these days” and “someday”. Let’s write that letter we thought of writing “one of these days”.
将“今后某一天”这类的话语从你的词汇中删除,现在就把你想在“今后某一天”写的信件写了寄走。
Let’s tell our families and friends how much we love them. Do not delay anything that adds laughter and joy to your life.
不要把对家人和朋友的爱深藏心中,大胆地告诉他们。对于能给你的生命增添快乐的事情,不要押后拖延。
Every day, every hour, and every minute is special. And you don’t know if it will be your last.
每一天,每一小时,每一分钟都是特别的。你怎么知道这会不会是你的最后一刻。
This is quite true ...
Just can't believe it ... How could it be ... none of my family members, except me and my sis in Kuching remembers my brother's birthday ... How could they !! It's the big day ... he's turned 14 !! Don't mind if no one remembers mine (most likely only my brother and my sis in Kuching do) but how could they not remember his!!
4th JANUARY --- My Cutest Brother's Birthday!! Hehe..of coz he is the cut"est"... I have only one ... no other brother to compared with. Also, he claims himself to be the cutest somemore ... cannot tahan him. The other day, teased him, said to exchange presents... and Today, asked what he wants as present, he said nothing and added saying that even if he told me, I wouldn't buy ... haih ... know what he meant ... a mobile with camera but I can't afford to buy such present. Will be digging my own grave if I buy him one coz next time he would ask for a 3G phone.
First day of the year and I have slept most of the day... spent 2/3 of the day sleeping. Been so headache since coming back from BBQ at friend's place. Beer, wine, mixing with other hard liqour.... it must have been the drinks. Again, friends tried to make me drunk, not fully successful though ;p Don't really feel anything and was still able to drive home after that ... and them ... continuosly vomitting like crazy... Well, they just love drinking. But it's always good to gather with friends once in a while.